So YOU are the procrastinator?? Do tell me more about that!
I have always heard that procrastination is perfectionism really. I can be a bit of a perfectionist/procrastinator myself in certain areas. I *can* make my H worse by pointing out little things he's missed (bad, bad!!).lol.
But I have no qualms about hiring out work to GOOD people (btw, I LOOK for the perfectionists when hiring out work.lol.)
I sense you identify with my H, and I would love to hear more of your POV. But this is a HUGE issue in our marriage and it's really not fair. We have a 14-year-old son that never wants to invite anyone over. Our house has holes in the walls, black mold in the bathrooms, stained, nasty carpets.
My son tore a toenail off one time on the baseboard my H never finished (it's been undone for 6 years).
Like I said, I have lived in India--this is a 2000 square foot home on 5 acres. It's a palace compared to that. But he makes awesome money! I've been a completely different person now for 6 years!! And my counselor feels it is a reason for divorce if he can't respect his family enough to do something about it (And this was a Christian Pastor who told me this!)
I think lack of respect is in there too--boundaries and respect--seems to be a coralation? Have you seen that to be true?
I am so excited that there are videos to see!! Going to check them out--thanks!!
