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He can't do that in a week or 2


no he won't, unless he has some kind of crazy wakeup call.

I think it is okay to allow a slight bit more open availability or communication, but not to the extreme you had been doing recently. You do want to encourage his good behavior, and I know that you want that comfort feeling, but he does need to work for what you are giving him.

plus the fact that you are allowing him to fulfill an emotional need which you cannot keep expecting, because he has not been able to prove consistency to you yet, and it would take months and months to really do that.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."