It is really helping me to understand, as are many of your posts.
Have you ever considered writing a book? It could be so helpful to people.
You know, I think I must have been going through MLC myself, before this happened. I think that's the "bad" behavior of mine that exacerbated his situation (not that he wouldn't have gone MLC anyways, just made it tougher). Only difference being that I never went outside the marriage with a PA. Indeed, I think that it was his dropping the Bomb that led to me finishing the tunnel and going on to the acceptance stage. Having to wrap it all up, look after the kids, myself, and go on with life. I wish he wasn't in MLC now. I think I know how long and foggy it is. I wish he didn't run, or go outside the M, it makes it harder, and it is really hard anyway.
