I know, once again, I am thinking of him. Please forgive me for my thoughts, but they are what they are.
do not be sorry for having thoughts of someone you love and have loved. of course that is going to happen!!! you just keep doing things that you used to, or are now passionate about. focus on your passions outside of H, and surround yourself with positive people, positive music, positive everything.
I have a friend who has been S for 2 years. Her H is a marine, so I'm sure she has more understanding for your sitch. I emailed her today to see if she had any insight, and on the legal stuff as she is studying in that specific field. But, it is amazing what God has done in her life over the course of these years and how much of a blessing she is, and how God has strengthened her and used her in other peoples lives. She is a true inspiration...and coming from a lady who in the very beginning would call the OW every day and hang up!
(((DU)))
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
