Fixer, Hi, remember me? Celestial. I am so sorry to see your still in limbo. Nothing has changed except your D is getting older. It`s been 5 years for us both Fixer. My H is still up to his tricks, at times worse. He still doesn`t L me, still refuses to be a grandfather and screamed at me about how long does it take me to get it, that he wants out.
I understand when you said your W wanted the benefits of being M, that`s what kept me here so long. 5 years of my life went to saving my M. I`m ready to enjoy life once again.
I filed for a D a month ago. H is so happy and relieved.I am too. Fixer, remember that only you will know when to walk away. The time came for me.