I guess more information would help...

He hasn't always been LD, for example in his previous relationship, and when he was single, he had what he called a "healthy sexual appetite."

And this is not the only sexless relationship I have been in either. A few of my past boyfriends never seemed to want me to touch them either.

So it's clear to me that I need to make changes to make myself more sexually attractive to him. I have known this for a long time and that's why I came here. I love him just the way he is, but there is something turning him off.