Not sure if this is conveying what I mean to say but I am trying to find something that you may relate to:

“So lose no heart, nor fall into despair if you are true in faith for you are higher. If a wound touches you, be sure similar wound has touched others. Such days of fortune we give to people by turns, that Allah may know those that believe, and He may take to Himself martyrs from your ranks, Allah loves not those that do wrong “

Al-Imran 3: 139 & 140

I tried to find something in the Koran about not giving up, not losing hope.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)