Hello, flowmom! Like the others, I like the new thread name.

Good advice for flowmom, rr22. flowmom, I also like your list of priorities. I'm going to borrow this one for myself, if you don't mind: "need to work on not letting anxiety and fear take over my thoughts and actions." With some concentration, courage, and effort, we both can do this. I believe us to be intelligent, talented, and extremely capable (not to mention incredibly attractive), and we haven't been given any more than our brilliant brains can handle.

Here's to our ability and motivation to embrace change!