How do I act?

[Surviving03]

So true... the answer is NO I dont want to be with someone who feels marriages can just come and go, and for better for for worse really only meant for better. I didnt know that was the case for H until now, obviously, but now that I know... I dont like it. And yes, I will know now in a future relationship to be more aware and really think about the red flags that cant be ignored... I hope it doesnt make me too guarded and scared that I cant open up to someone, but I will be far more cautious.

The thing about the house work... i dont know that i let him get away with it, it actually became a source of many arguments...the same arguments H now says were making him miserable and unhappy. I guess I just didnt know how to communicate better with him in order to get results.

I noticed on H facebook today he posted some pics he took of himself today, one without a shirt on, one where he is flexing his biceps... etc... SO out of character for him typically... but now that he has lost so much weight and is gonna be single, I guess he thinks he is hot Sh!t... its quite pathetic IMO..I saw it and my first reaction was "grow up" its sad to watch him revert to his old immaturity... The way he talks about his new Navigator, and some convo's i came across where he was talkin about being divorced and single.. and now these pics... WOW... very unattrative to me... I need a man, a responsible, respectable man... which i THOUGHT i had... nope... not anymore...