Will tell the whole story later. The short version is I can't live like this anymore. I am not ready to give up on our marriage, but if she wanted out, I would not stop her. However, she was the one who was going to leave, not me. She didn't know what else we could try. I said counseling, whatever. We could try talking for a change, go away for a weekend without the kids. Maybe seperating would make us see what we have is worth saving. I said again, that's not what I want but would help her pack her bags if she wanted to go.
She also said lots of things about me being gone so much lately and stuff like that.
So, is GAL working? Is her being jealous good? What do I do from here?
I'm surprised how calm i was and still am. I knew this was coming and I knew what I needed to do.
