Glad you have some fun plans for today. Don't apologize for thinking about your H - it is natural, it is normal, and it takes a long time. Getting out with friends is a great place to start, one of the best. The more you are focused on other things (and GOOD things), the more you will be able to put your H out of your mind.
Sorry, no movie recommendations here. I haven't seen a movie in what feels like a hundred years (well, that wasn't for kids anyway).:)
