I don't think he's done with you by a long shot--keep DBing like CRAZY!!!
Anger, although annoying, and needs to have boundaries, is energy and lots of it. When they are "done", they don't put energy towards you any longer. Pushing your buttons will be the last thing on his mind.
When they get quiet, even "friendly", THAT is the time to worry.
Laura that IS WHAT WORRIES me. What I thought was "progress" lately in our getting along is actually friendly.
I think I mis read it. The other night I got the "I like and love you but I don't want to be in a R with you" speech and he said he wanted to do this friendly.
Now he wants to see S and not with me
No more time with me for anger.
Im really really scared.
And this gf for the past eight months.
Time I got real I think - I"ve been DBing and it's allowed me to believe there was hope when there wasn't - I should have laid down a boundary and gone dark MONTHS AND MONTHS ago.
