Personally, I'm not expecting an end to my w's fog. Not because it won't happen, but by clinging I'm not focusing on me and the now. It's hard.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)