Mila - My H has had bouts of depression on and off for a long time. There were times I knew he blamed the M for it. H would snap out of it and all would be well again. Looking back on it now I believe H's trigger may have been his stroke. (4 1/2 years ago) He has been depressed to one degree or another since that time. More so and constant in the last 2 years.
My H also seems even more miserable than before he left. I'm sure that's why a divorce is the next logical step for him. He believes if he can remove me from his life altogether that will make it all better.
If he doesn't realize that he needs to look inside ow will be the next on the list to be blamed. How can such a smart man be so ignorant?
