I don't feel like my focus has shifted more back to him, but I suppose it probably has. He looks like my H again, acts like himself so much more again (relaxed, even almost happy somtimes), is so much more like a "real" dad again, but he is not "my H." It is hard not to notice so many positive changes in him and make me hopeful.
I am working to shift back and make sure I am focusing where I need to.
Will be thinking about your questions. I have a lot to think about.
