agree with alan...and oh how i know how u feel...i really really do. do your best to not contact him, not take calls, do anything you can to do "something different"...that doesnt mean you arent fighting for your marriage, you are trying something new and at the same time, you will feel better and empowered.
you wont get an apology and if you got one, it wouldnt change anything, he wont mean it sincerely and it wont stop him from doing what he is doing.
please read my thread and learn from my mistakes.
please file for child support....the biggest mistake i made was not protecting our money...
Thanks md. Yup 4luv this is the thing. How can you be divorce busting if you accept an apology.. you are supposed to ignore 100% of what they SAY and focus only on what they are DOING... him saying "I'm sorry" is NOTHING.
It's an insult to think a phone call "I'm sorry" is anything respectable. His behaviour and cowardice is outrageous.
The only way this guy is giong to man up is when people don't enable him and tolerate his crap anymore.
Let her toss him out, then he will come back and tell you that HE ended his affair... then you toss him out too and tell him to get some treatment or he can't see his son anymore.
