agree with alan...and oh how i know how u feel...i really really do. do your best to not contact him, not take calls, do anything you can to do "something different"...that doesnt mean you arent fighting for your marriage, you are trying something new and at the same time, you will feel better and empowered.

you wont get an apology and if you got one, it wouldnt change anything, he wont mean it sincerely and it wont stop him from doing what he is doing.

please read my thread and learn from my mistakes.

please file for child support....the biggest mistake i made was not protecting our money...

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09