Mila and CW, what is it with us three? I'm dealing with the same feelings right now. That maybe H just stopped loving me because he could sure care less about me anymore and very little about the kids. In an email he wrote to me just after he left he said he had to leave before he started resenting me and the kids. Obviously he already did.
I do know one thing my H was depressed for quite a while before he left, but could never really tell me why. First it was one thing and then another and it kept changing. He would tell me that he felt that all he was doing was just existing. There was no happiness or joy in his life.
MLC or depression, maybe both, who knows for sure. Do WAS's ever change their minds and return?
I'll tell you one thing ladies, I'm reaching inside and digging deep to find the happiness that I know is there and counting my blessings.