So should I not even pick up if/when he calls? I don't want to say anything...I just feel like I want AT THE LEAST an apology. Then we can end it right there because there is no excuse that could make up for all the lies. I am not looking for WHY he did what he did...just an apology. A simple I am sorry. I know that this will probably not happen but that is what i am looking for or hoping for whenever he chooses to contact me. After that, I don't need anymore contact from him because their is nothing else to say.

I am more hurt today than any other time. I at least expected a text that said "I am sorry" or "this is the decision i made, sorry it had to go down like this." Even that type of acknowledgement would have let me know that our 11 year relationship wasn't just something that he just could throw away without blinking an eye. But I didn't get any type of apology. He is probably up there with her giving her all type of excuses and explanations while i get nothing from him...just silence.

Last edited by 4luv; 04/03/10 04:56 PM.
Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo