LauraOh, thanks for sharing your story. I'm not great at setting boundaries, but I'm learning that it starts with an internal process. We have to be clear inside. I really like how Byron Katie puts boundaries, for example "I love you and no". Connected assertiveness is grounded in love, but clearly expresses "yes" or "no".
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
