SCH are you able to talk with WH, I mean really talk without it escalating into a argument? Since he doesn't want to do MC and if you are able to talk, how about going away together...just the two of you...without the kids. You don't have to tell them that you are going with him. Do you have family or friends the kids can visit for the weekend? Maybe a weekend alone with him would help you to understand more where things are. I don't know, maybe I'm out to lunch with this idea....I'm just brainstorming....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO