Steady, thank you. I did take the news really hard, and all of you said it was just a piece of paper. i always think the worst right off the bat. you are absolutely correct when you tell me I have no idea where things are going. I see that finally, and that's why I now say one day at a time.
I know things will be up and down, but this is the most positive outlook I've been able to have in months.
I'm proud of myself because I'm sticking to what I've learned for the first time. The advice I've been given from you guys is already paying off.
I'm not trying to get cocky, but I'm proud of myself. i was put to the test twice in two days and I passed it. i would not have passed it a few months back.
I'm not saying things are instantly repaired, but a baby step has been made in the right direction. Until now everything was either a backwards step or status quo.
I have been biting my tongue and coming to you guys before i react. If I had called her out on the Facebook post i would have set everything back. You guys talked me off the ledge, I listened, and here i am today. if I hadn't listened, no baby step.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept