What the people from the law of attraction are telling my W:
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If something has hurt you and you're working to forgive it, you are activating it. Forgiveness is almost exactly the same, in fact we would say it IS exactly the same as saying, "I'm going to deactivate this thing that's hurt me." And we would say, the reason that it doesn't go very far and the reason that people struggle so hard with the idea of forgiveness is because they keep digging up the stuff that they don't want and keeping it active in their vibration so that they have a stream of people they have to forgive.
So we would give forgiveness a new definition. We would say, the ultimate way of forgiving is really forgetting; and the ultimate way of forgetting, really is by remembering something you want to remember.
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So this might answer why she hasn't called. She's already working towards forgetting me. Should I do something about it?
NO. You shouldn't do anything about your wife trying to forget you. She can't forget you. I can guarantee it, the more that she tries to forget you, the more you still stay at the forefront of her mind's thoughts.
You don't forget the past, you embrace it. It made you who you are today. How could you ever forget the past? Do you remember being a kid when you were small, certain times, events, etc. Do you remember going to school? Do you remember your friends in school? Do you remember the kids you didn't like? Do you remember certain teachers? Do you remember certain sports you played? You remember good things and bad things, you will remember bad things more prominently and there's nothing you can do about that, in fact, it's a survival mechanism bred in you to ensure the survival of the human race.
So yeah, I don't think she'll be forgetting you anytime soon. No matter what the people say who happen to channel certain ghosts to instruct the living on how to live a great life try to tell your wife, she won't forget you.
You make a conscious decision to live in the present but you don't accomplish that by having amnesia with regards to your past.
You embrace your past, you forgive those who have wronged you in the past because holding on to that pain does you no good and living a happy life in the present is where it's at. Forgiving others is actually a gift you give to yourself, "I won't let what you did to me in the past affect my present and future, I forgive you for what you did because it allows me to let go of that pain & hurt that I've been holding on to"
