ediemarie - how long did you wait for him to end his affair after you found out?

My best friend is going through something I don't understand. I want to be there for him but he's hurting me. He knows he's hurting me but cannot stop doing it. This isn't the man I fell in love with. Will he be that person again?

I suppose I'm staying because I'm not sure if I should leave him or not.

jasper67 - I'm sorry that you are already at NC. I wish you the best.

When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.