I don't have you confused (on the unconditional love point). I'm sorry, I just assumed that you and others would see the reply to "themud" in the header. Maybe I ought to be more explicit.
As for the leaving, moving, etc; sorry for any confusion. It is kinda hard to follow all the responses the way this system is organized.
The Captain
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)