Your right!! I do this more or less to put my mind at ease. You see up until my H came home one day and said he wanted a divorce I had never left my kids overnight with anyone. So this whole situation has helped me grow as a parent and in other areas of my life.


XH 30
W 29
M 5/Together 9
2 boys ages 3 and 1
Bomb of OW 10/2009
Divorce final 7/2010
Now in limbo