Your right!! I do this more or less to put my mind at ease. You see up until my H came home one day and said he wanted a divorce I had never left my kids overnight with anyone. So this whole situation has helped me grow as a parent and in other areas of my life.
XH 30 W 29 M 5/Together 9 2 boys ages 3 and 1 Bomb of OW 10/2009 Divorce final 7/2010 Now in limbo