Seen H thursday night and we had cordial convo. Just about money and Easter with the kids. We have some extra money coming in that we are going to split. He will use his share to get his own apartment. I made the joke "To bad we are getting a D, we could've used the money to get you flying again". He actually laughed and said I know that sucks. As I was leaving he asked me if I wanted to see the D papers he had written up, and I said no not tonight.
Since then, I've had NC with him and won't until tomorrow for Easter. It's been good, and feel so much better staying out of his drama.
I got some really good news yesterday about a big pay raise!!! This couldn't have come at a better time. It will help me afford my house on my own. I don't plan on telling my H about it until I'm forced to by the courts.
I hope everyone has a great Easter!!!!
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10