LauraOh, an experienced DBer, posted this in H4L's thread.
Originally Posted By: LauraOh
Anger, although annoying, and needs to have boundaries, is energy and lots of it. When they are "done", they don't put energy towards you any longer. Pushing your buttons will be the last thing on his mind.
When they get quiet, even "friendly", THAT is the time to worry.
It's been three months of separation, and that's where we're at: quiet, even "friendly".
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
It's been three months of separation, and that's where we're at: quiet, even "friendly".
