Bill,
How do you accomplish the distance and space when there are small children involved? I know my H, is very insecure when it comes to taking care of of a 3 yr old and 1 yr old. I currently bring my kids back to where we used to live, and stay with a friend while my H has our kids, just so I am close if there is a problem. I want him to be able to do it on his own, but I fear that if he gets discouraged or looses his patients, he may distance himself from our kids, and I don't want that to happen.


XH 30
W 29
M 5/Together 9
2 boys ages 3 and 1
Bomb of OW 10/2009
Divorce final 7/2010
Now in limbo