How has this been different from the way you left your Marriage ?
The way you decided to leave your Marriage ?
I am hoping that you see what others see in you right now..
This courage to want to come back is very admirable. The courage to do the work on you....
I say courage because you have already faced one of the toughest aspects of this.....
Pride....
A lot of MLCers let pride get in the way of their return.
And to let that go is very admirable.
I'm gonna pick your brain, as I see others doing that as well.
If it is too much, then say so.
I want others to see, what others deny. That MLC does exist, and it is a condition that is NOT chosen, but HAS to happen.
Do you feel that this was a choice that you made?
A conscious choice to end your marriage ?
Or was this a burning desire to act on what you felt was missing in your life, and that you felt your spouse was not giving to you?
I have had oppurtunity to speak to several MLCers that have come through the tunnel, and all of their stories, while being different, still have the same aspects to them.....
That they knew what they were doing was wrong , but that they could not change the path they were on.
That this destruction HAD to happen for them to see that what they were missing did not come from the outside. And to look inside of themselves was NOT an option until what they felt was causing their unhappiness was removed from their lives.
Jas....YOU are on a good path right now for you....
And once again, please say if you are overwhelmed.
