I appreciate the support. I was talking out of anger last night and I agree that I am not going to make one move. I want to see if husband follows through with filing since he has obviously told OW that we are separating. I actually called my MIL last night after the conversation because I didn't know who else to call and vent to. She was upset for me and said that she just had talked to my husband yesterday and he was telling her that he had been spending a lot of time thinking about me and our son and getting his family back and that he needs to dealwith a lot of his own demons. I told her it was all bull chit at this point. MIL has never met OW in person but has talked to over the phone before and said she won't ever mince words with me or her. MIL will tell her just as she would tell me her thoughts and exactly what her son says to her when they talk.
MIL also seems to think that the reason OW called me is because she was probably giving my husband an ultimatum andhe was either stalling and she must have realized that things weren't progressing. In other words, OW was marching to the drum of whatever my my husband told her but now she has decided to take things in her own hands because obivously things weren't moving according to how she planned. See, my husband just moved into his new apartment (which OW supposedly found for him). She was most likely expecting that he would be moving her and her son in very soon but I KNEW that would not happen. One thing I do know that husband is truthful about is wanting to live the single bachelor life. So I knew that he wasn't going to have one family move out to only move another one in. He doesn't want the responsibility.
I think that husband is going to turn this on me. That is how he operates. Instead of owning up he will find a way to blame me for "telling OW our business." HE will make it seems as though we were about to get back together but I ran my mouth, blah, blah , blah and didn't take up for him. Sounds crazy but this is how he will spin it.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
