If he's anything like my WH, he doesn't even know what love is right now. AND mine was doing everything he could to appear a certain way to me. So, even as he was telling his sisters that he missed me, he was cold and heartless to me. Snippy, impatient, etc. They can't manage their feelings, I think. So I wouldn't trust his "lack of remorse"-- he could have been responding to your "not completely friendly"ness. (As mine was probably responding to my detachment, too.) Him saying that he destroyed his life and has nothing is a good thing, I think. He's starting to realize what he has done. . .
Can't believe you ran into him! Is the universe behind it?
So glad he's being frugal. It's also hard for him because of the job situation. I hope he finds something soon.
And I'm so glad you've had your finances convo! Check that off the list.
A plus tard. . . ciao!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
