hi...i havent been around much but i check in now and then...i caught your last post...im sorry i dont know your whole story but based on your post, here is my advice...#1, read through my thread if you have the time....#2, if you do not want a divorce or separation, do not file for the separation!!!!! the ow is getting what she wants, that was her goal...but please, do file for your child support...you can do that without getting the marriage involved...

it is so very hard to not talk to the ow when they call, when you want to explain your side...but the best thing u can do, is do nothing...trust me...read my thread...

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09