Hey hun! Hope things feel a bit calmer for you by the time you read this.. gonna be about all day and have left FB on if you need to chat! Will only be popping back and forth from the computer to get coffee etc so hang about (())
Firstly as the others said I cant see how this can have been your fault, H was gunning for an argument and hell bent on organising you into one come what may! He knows what buttons to push and by the sounds of it kept hitting them till you caved.
No one with an ounce of compassions starts a custody conversation at 9pm at night, what a barsteward..
Ok he got you in a pickle and you asked for a hug, you wont do that again in a hurry, but cant say we havent all just wanted to kiss and make up at some point in our own messes, just they arnt in a kiss and make up mood!
Honestly Id take the GF thing with a pinch of salt, btw he said it, it certainly sounds like a cannon ball thrown in just to kick you off as you obviously did hold pretty well for a while as other wise he wouldnt have had to turn to nastier ammunition.
Just take care of you and S now for as long as you want and need, as they would say over here "send him to coventry" or NC big time!
Always here and if you wanna ring me message me on the alt and we can chat too..
Hugest hugs, sorry I couldnt get to post earlier it kept telling me you'd deleted the post! Was dead worried about you! (())
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