WAW and the law of attraction

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People can commit initially,
after a few years though of less than favorable conditions, people tend to want to renegotiate contracts for something better

Agree. The key word here is "renegotiate". An affair is not renegotiating. An affair is signing another contract behind the other party's back. It's fraud.

My wife asked me for 1 month to think things through. She used that month to get a lover and then was pondering whether she was better off with him or me. I never agreed to that, did I? It was incredibly unfair and selfish. That part, at least to me, hurts much more than the affair itself.