She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

Steady you answered the question I was going to ask. I was wondering if the fact that she wanted a legal S changes anything. I knew we were going to be S when we got home, just not legaly.

She said she told me now because she didn't want me to be surprised once I returned. I personally think this should have waited. I only a week left, and now I have to have this on my mind.

She was much nicer than she's been, and I don't understand. Remember before she was going to drop me off and leave, now she wants to make me dinner. She also said that we'll see how things go with the separation. That cracked a window didn't it?

I'm just not understanding why a legal S is necessary. Couldn't we just have done a S?

You're correct, I didn't react I acted. I know I said all the right things, and I told her i didn't want to say anything that would push her away. She said that I wasn't.

She told me I said and did all the things to push her away months ago. I agreed with her, but told her that was before I knew there was anything wrong, and that it was before I was educated.

This new information really isn't any different than before, but it just seems more official. I'm trying not to take this hard, but you know I am. I can't help but to feel it's over now.

I just keep hearing that it will be nice to see you, and that she want's to make me dinner. She asked me what I wanted her to make, and I said anything would be fine.

She said we will get together and make joint decisions. She said we're both adults and we can work things out. I told her that she knows how I feel about her, and I don't need to tell her.