Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Hi sandi2,

Thank you!

I am so hurt and upset right now. My wife is back to her old self. She leaves her dishes lying around. She does nothing at home. She is always planning something on the weekend with the kids without me. She never asks me to go. I am so pissed at her right now. She spends money that we do not have and does not even discuss with me our plans for Easter. I am so not good at DBing. I love her, but I do not like her at all right now.

I am trying to deal with it but its me right in my heart. We use to go together as a family. I just hate my situation. It is a horrible existence. I wish it would change soon. I do not like what is happening, and I feel that our marriage will never survive, and that is not what I want to have happen. I wish I could do more to change things, but unless she wants them to change I believe that we are finished.

I am just so angry at her and what she is doing. What a selfish excuse for a W.