Hope, sorry for not answering to your question esrlier...
My advice for space, was referring to this crisis. You cant reasonate with an angry man that looks for justifications for what he has been doing. You cant make someone become tender when he wants to hurt you. You were looking for compassion from a man that hates his guts.
You need to step back now. Dr.Love says for you, I agree, and I say for both of you. Ignore what he said, they say the meanest things, I had a chit soul, was the worst person he had ever met... things I will probably not forget but know he didnt mean them. He was trying to hurt me and he managed to do that.
Take care of you and when you feel better, then you decide what you do and if what you are doing works. K
