I have to do the space thing. I'm so ashamed at how I messed this up. All I can do is do better today.
WHAT? YOU MESSED UP?
He tells you that he has a GF and you messed up?
Hope4, You know what I did after I found pictures of my W with another man (lacking clothes)... I started crying and begged HER to give ME another chance. SHE cheated on me and I asked HER for another chance? (Wouldn’t happen now)
You did not mess up lady. Your reaction was natural. I can see his point about the phone but still if he did not give you reason to believe you needed to do that it would not have happened. Screw giving him space lady... YOU need to get away for a while...Give yourself and your brain a break. I too felt I “messed up” but even if I did. I found I needed to take care of myself. You too need to take care of yourself. I have not been reading along for very long but it seems to me HE has you programmed woman. You sound like a “stepford wife “
“Stepford Wives is about a small suburb where the women happily go about their housework - cleaning, doing laundry, and cooking gourmet meals - to please their husbands. Unfortunately, Bobbie and Joanna discover that the village's wives have been replaced with robots, and Joanna'a husband wants in on the action”
I hope you had some rest. Lack of sleep does cloud the mind. YOU DID NOT MESS UP
Virtual hug to ya Doc
Last edited by Dr LOve; 04/03/1005:24 AM.
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