Yeah.. it's hard to take... And I'm just as sure you weren't the cause of your marriage break-up.
Apparently it's called "gaslighting" (thanks Max!)...
I've reserved a book at the library to read up on it called "The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life" By Robin Stern, Ph.D
First step... (2x4 to self) stop talking to SIL.. even if she contacts me keep it brief and not about H... *sigh*
Second step... still follow through on plans for the rest of the weekend...
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
My Sitch in MLC - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=45253&Number=1901148#