Originally Posted By: flowmom
He shouldn't sleep on your couch. He should sleep on a friend's couch and grovel until he proves to you that he has earned your trust.

I 100% agree. There needs to be consequences and he needs to EARN your love back. If you let him back in to easy, he will not respect you and think he can get away with this again.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)