He shouldn't sleep on your couch. He should sleep on a friend's couch and grovel until he proves to you that he has earned your trust.
I 100% agree. There needs to be consequences and he needs to EARN your love back. If you let him back in to easy, he will not respect you and think he can get away with this again.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)