Wholeagain, part 2

[Wholeagain]

On a brighter side, my losses are nothing in comparison to real losses. The fact that they did not happen in the scope of my sitch doesn't mean they don't exist. I'll look at my frustration as a small price for a freedom.

[Wholeagain]

Checking in.

Learning to deal with uneasy feelings. Still.

[Wholeagain]

I need to find my big girl panties! I don't know why I get upset so easy and keep being upset.

[Wholeagain]

2x4 someone?

[pearlharbr]

Here with the 2x4...

You choose to be on the roller coaster. If you want to get off you can. Reread the detachment article.

Give yourself 5 minutes to meltdown then stop and do something fun. Wallowing doesn't do anything except leave you covered in mud.

[pearlharbr]

Coach's post on LoveSickGuy's thread:

choices:

victim or responsible for yourself

survive or thrive

feel or think

enmeshed or detached

fear or love

doormat or boundaries

crisis or opportunity

react or act according to plan (poise/confidence)

lost or goal-oriented (direction)

weak or confident

blame or responsibility

stuck or open mind

fantasy or reality

doomed or hopeful

down in the dumps or welcoming the challenge


Your choice LSG. Choose wisely.

[Wholeagain]

Thank you Pearl! Just what I need!

[Wholeagain]

I'm feeling sad today. In part because of being under the weather.

Is it really nothing I can do to change the sitch?

[soleil]

Hey Whole. I haven't ben posting in awhile but I just wanted to check in and it seems things are moving forward... life does go on which is a good thing

Have you picked up any new hobbies ore done anything new lately?

[Wholeagain]

Thanks for dropping by. I'm getting back with my hobbies. Don't really need any new ones, as I'm a hobby person. I moved the rest of my things from the house. Everything had a third hand smoke. He really let the house go. Smoking inside, dust bunnies everywhere, even my things that he packed were all in dust (= my things were sitting around all this time collecting dust, he didn't bother to move them, but when he knew I will come pack, he had to pack them into boxes just to be nasty). It's like he never cleaned a house since I left. Garden is all weeds. Hey Soleil, if your H insists on you visiting the house, maybe he actually wants your help with cleaning.