MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Hi SC- will try and catch up on your sitch! Sorry you are having an emotional weekend too! H has been gone since 12/30. The kids have been at his house twice. He is renting a house from OW's family. I don't know if he meant he was moving in with OW or just that "they" were going to look at a house. I have read that it is ok for me to tell the kids that I wanted our family to stay together and if the subject of OW comes up, then to make sure the kids understand that it is wrong to do that when you are married.

FM-Kids didn't question the "we" but SIL sure heard it and told DIL that she felt like slapping him when he said that! She is livid with him...kids told me they asked him today about if he was coming home and he said "I am probably not coming home".

SA-I agree that H and OW living together would be a reality check for both...at this point, I am still standing! Crazy as it seems!

So, went to SS's for fish tonight and my co-workers came and kidnappend me and DIL to get sit in a hot tub and drink some tequila rose shakes! My kids stayed with SS and grandson's. I resisted at first but DIL wanted to go so we did and so glad I did! Am very relaxed and just about ready for bed!!! Should make for a better weekend!!!! Hope you guys all have a good one too!