thanks TrentC. I appreciate your advice. It is kinda hard to DB when we do not talk, and when I text her, she lets OM see text messages I send her. Sometimes I see progress but then again, I might be seeing what I want to see.
I would like for her to join us when we go out, but she is on the defense when I ask. And if I do ask, she thinks I am harrassing her. So, it is kinda weird sometimes.
I have a plan, and I have been DBing my butt off, but, wow, it really requires patients.
