Thanks for checking in...the movie was good- its funny, I NEVER thought I'd be caught saying the original was better- I guess I'm starting to get a bit older (sound like my dad) lol...I saw the original like 100xs when I as 8-10 years old; guess its hard to compete w/ the imagination I had back then.
I'm in SE FL...very far south...it was awesome. The plan for tomorrow is lunch and the beach or walkin around. Then dinner w/ a different friend from work...goal- not mentioning my sitch.
Have an update and it's kinda throwing me off...
W texted me "why are u ignoring me?"
This will be the first contact necessitating a reply (kind of). I dont want to seem childish and not reply, nor do I want to say yet another boundary...
Sadly 2 weeks ago I effed up...I spoke w/ W and said I was upset that MIL was so uncomfortable w/ me during the move. W said "well you said there wont be a friendship, so why does it matter?" Unfortunately, I backed down from my boundary and was "meltyman"- "oh, there will be some type of friendship eventually..."
BLECH!
Our last conversation was OM/sitch related and somewhat 'confrontational'- me reminding her of my POV of the sitch and her actions...since then I haven't spoken to her at all.
I feel really good NC- sure I still think about her, but I'm not SO caught up on her anymore.
I am really wondering what I should say...if anything at all. I want to move on and I don't want to make her feel good, knowing I think about her or to appease her guilt or whatever...
Is it rude or childish to simply not reply to her text?
