Mila, I realize your D texted him, so he was told. Not sure why he thought it was necessary to call you up and complain. All I can figure is he was projecting his guilt on to you. Still deep in the tunnel.
He chose this path when he abandoned you and your D. There's a price to be paid and as high as it is for us, it's higher for them. The thing is we're paying it now, they'll pay it later, with interest, when they wake up. The good thing for us is that we get to pay on the installment plan, they'll get hit with it all at once.
Don't beat yourself up girl, you're doing great! The only reason you didn't win this one was because you were coming at it logically. No way was it going to make sense to a MLCer.