My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

surviving I have been following you and am glad you said what you said above. I do think our sitch is sort of the same. I don't know if you've read all of mine. Currently my H is living at his Mom's house so that he can carry on his relationship with the ow. I don't think it is a PA, but who knows. I think it is more of a puppy dog high school thing. I'm also pretty sure he is stringing me along until he decides what he wants or more the OW decides if she is going to be in a relationship with him.

It is so true that I do deserve more respect. So very true....I am worth more and obviously I can't rely on my H for any happiness right now. My birthday is next week and I am pretty sure he could care less. We will see.

I really need to work on detaching better and I really appreciate your words of encouragement. I think you are also right that you need to let your H run his course all by his big boy self. I'm thinking that is what I need to do with my H also. My H is so on the fence and I think he just wants me to file so it isn't his fault and he isn't the one to blame.