Diana,

Just read your thread in Newcomers about parenting a teen.

I'm going to try and refrain from posting there for a bit.

However, I'll post here.

Do you trust your daughter?

It comes down to that.

If you trust your daughter then you really have your answer. You strove to raise them differnetly than you, and she has been.

As for the whole only sleeping with one person...it is a dying breed and almost unrealistic to believe our children would follow the same norms as us.

You wanted her to come to you first...she has...how are YOU going to repay that trust she has in you. Imgaine how brave she must have been just to tell you?

You seem to have one great kid there D.



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