W called today and I let it go to voice mail. She was going to the doctor to get new ADD/ADHD meds and needed the new insurance info that went into effect yesterday. She wanted me to e-mail it to her so she could just get it off of her phone. Couldn't get the info right away so I sent her an e-mail to that effect. She called back an hour later to tell me that she now needed the prescription drug info as well for the new meds. I let this go to VM as well. Eventually found how to print a temporary card off the internet and called her and walked her through that.
She texted me this afternoon asking about Easter brunch plans with her and D19. I texted back that I needed to see if I could change my plans. She sent back: "But either way I really just want to know if D19 and I should plan something without you. Does that make sense? Or did you want to include her and I should plan something else to do. NO PRESSURE or agenda, just wondering. " (I put her actual wording and case in the message to see if there is anything I should be gathering from it. ANYONE?) Texted that I was going to firm up plans tonight at the party but to go ahead and make reservations for all of us if she could and if that fell through we would figure out a plan B.
Not sure if that was the right thing to do or not. I tried to use Sandi's advice above. I'll be seeing the W tomorrow morning at the bank to get the mutual funds moved over to me and giving her her BD present.
That's all for now.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
" (I put her actual wording and case in the message to see if there is anything I should be gathering from it. ANYONE?) Texted that I was going to firm up plans tonight at the party but to go ahead and make reservations for all of us if she could and if that fell through we would figure out a plan B.
