SCH - thanks for looking out for me smile
Our business is based on H's expertise. I'm the business manager. I'm easier to replace. I can't just take it over, or to buy him out. According to her H, OW is quite well off, is able to support herself from her investments until her divorce is done and then she will have 1/2 of the marital assets as well.

There is the issue of distance between H & OW. She won't move here because of her kids. She apparently goes to the house in the morning makes them breakfast, takes them to school, cooks, cleans, does the laundry, groceries, brings the kids home from school and then goes to her apartment. Apparently she plans to take a part time job to support her self.

WH can't move there because our business would die. Although that was their big plan, so who knows...

Pretty complicated....

And I will seek legal advice before I make any major changes.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO